When tensions are high, the idea of sitting down to resolve issues with someone you don’t see eye-to-eye with can feel impossible. However, family dispute resolution is specifically designed to help people who are in conflict, not just those already on good terms.
Let’s explore how family dispute resolution can work effectively, even if you and the other party aren’t on the best of terms.
Understanding family dispute resolution
Family dispute resolution is a structured process where a neutral third party, known as a Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner (FDRP), helps both parties discuss their issues and explore solutions collaboratively. Unlike court proceedings, mediation (known as a family dispute resolution conference) is designed to be less adversarial and more focused on finding practical solutions that work for everyone involved.
This process is also sometimes referred to as divorce mediation when it involves separated or divorcing couples. Regardless of the terminology, the goal remains the same: to help families resolve disputes efficiently and respectfully.
How family dispute resolution works, even when there’s conflict
It happens on neutral ground
Family dispute resolution provides a safe, neutral space where both parties can express their concerns without fear of judgment or bias. The mediator’s role is to facilitate communication and ensure that both sides are heard.
Focus on the future and solutions
The goal of family dispute resolution is to find solutions, not to assign blame. This forward-looking approach can help shift the focus from past grievances to future possibilities, in turn making it easier to reach an agreement.
Structured process
Mediation follows a structured process that helps keep discussions on track and ensures that all relevant issues are addressed.
It’s private and confidential
One of the key benefits of family dispute resolution is confidentiality. What’s discussed in mediation sessions remains private and cannot be used in court, encouraging openness and honesty.
You have a skilled professional guiding the conversation
A skilled FDRP, like Andrew at Lander Solicitors Queensland, brings expertise in both family law and conflict resolution. This professional guidance is crucial for navigating complex issues and de-escalating tensions during divorce mediation or other family disputes.
Caveats to consider with family dispute resolution
While family dispute resolution can be effective even when parties don’t get along, it depends on the extent of the conflict. If you and the other party butt heads but are still open to negotiation and compromise, mediation can work well. However, in situations involving serious domestic violence, significant power imbalances, or complete refusal to cooperate, mediation may not be suitable, and litigation might be necessary.
But if the issue is clashing personalities, miscommunication, or high emotions (common in separation), mediation remains a highly effective option.
Why choose Lander Solicitors Queensland as your family dispute resolution practitioner?
At Lander Solicitors Queensland, we specialise in FDR, helping families resolve conflicts without unnecessary escalation. Led by experienced FDRP Andrew Lander, our team provides calm, professional support for parenting arrangements, property settlements, and other family law issues. We aim to help you avoid the emotional and financial toll of court by offering effective family law mediation and divorce mediation services.
Ready to explore family dispute resolution?
If you’re facing a family dispute and wondering if mediation could work for you, contact Lander Solicitors Queensland today to schedule an intake session. Discover how our family dispute resolution services can help you navigate your family law matters with confidence and care. Let us assist you in finding a resolution that supports your family’s future – contact us today.
Let us assist you in finding a resolution that supports your family’s future and reach out today.
DISCLAIMER – The information provided in this blog is general and does not consider your individual legal needs or objectives. It does not constitute personal advice and is for informational purposes only. We recommend seeking out professional and independent legal advice from qualified Australian lawyer to advise on your individual situation before acting on any information contained below. Lander Solicitors Queensland accepts no express or implied liability for negligence or contractually for reliance on any information provided. Liability limited by a scheme approved under Professional Standards Legislation.







